Have you ever questioned yourself on the price one should pay to cleanse or completely remove the feeling of betrayal we instill in people we relate to?
Let me put it this way, human beings are often likened to eggs placed in one vessel, at some point and time,disloyalty might arise.
Regardless of the level of trust between the involved parties, an automatic bruise of feelings is bound to happen. Either way how we relate with these people gets distorted. How we mend this kind of situation is my major interest.
Mariage, dating or friendship are among the main types of interactions in which occurance of mistrust is most likely to occur.
Lately the showbiz industry both in East Africa and the world over has been faced with such situation. In this case, Bongo sensational artist Diamond Platinumz came out to confirm the rumours that he had sired a child with some woman other than his known bae Zari. Comedian Kevin Hart also publicly made an apology to his wife and kids for cheating.
During his impeachment for misconduct, former US president Bill Clinton said “one requires more than an apology to be forgiven.”
Diamond has vowed that he is willing to trek to South Africa from Tanzania if that will be the ultimate price he has to pay to be forgiven by his wife.
To me, loyalty and trust are like that precious cherry. Once you pop it, you cant have it back! So I cut you off. No truce.
What about you? How would you treat disloyalty?